Why Caring for a Lot of Plants Is So Therapeutic

A view of my balcony.

There is something deeply comforting about caring for another living thing.

For me, that feeling has grown into a home filled with more than 140 indoor plants and another 130 or so outside. To some people, that may sound like a lot of work—and honestly, it is. There is watering, pruning, repotting, fertilizing, cleaning leaves, moving plants around, and paying attention to what each one needs.

But somewhere along the way, I realized that the care itself is part of the joy.

Plants Give Us a Reason to Slow Down

Life can be noisy. There are always messages to answer, errands to run, deadlines to meet, and things competing for our attention.

Plants don’t care about any of that.

When I’m taking care of them, I have to be present. I notice that a leaf is turning yellow. I see a new shoot emerging. I realize one plant needs more light while another has been happier in the shade. Even something as simple as watering becomes an opportunity to pause and pay attention.

Caring for plants pulls us out of our heads and into the moment.

And there is something therapeutic about that kind of quiet attention.

There Is Satisfaction in Watching Something Grow

One of the most rewarding things about having plants is witnessing progress that happens slowly.

A new leaf doesn’t appear overnight. A cutting may take weeks to root. A small plant can gradually become something much larger and more beautiful.

That slow growth can be a wonderful reminder that not everything has to happen immediately.

We live in a world that often celebrates instant results. Plants teach a different lesson: nurture something, give it the right conditions, be patient, and let time do its work.

Sometimes the reward is simply noticing that something is growing because you took the time to care for it.

Plants Give Care a Tangible Form

There is also something emotionally satisfying about care that produces visible results.

You water a thirsty plant, and its leaves perk up.

You remove damaged leaves, and the plant looks healthier.

You give a struggling plant better light, and eventually you see new growth.

These little moments can feel surprisingly meaningful.

Taking care of plants gives us opportunities to nurture without needing words. We can see that our attention matters. Even when the task is small, there is a tangible connection between what we do and what happens next.

A House Full of Plants Can Feel Alive

My plants have become much more than decorations.

They make my home feel alive.

There is always something happening. A new leaf is unfurling. A flower is blooming. A vine has suddenly reached across a shelf. A plant that seemed to be doing nothing for months decides it’s finally ready to grow.

With more than 140 plants indoors, there is almost always something to discover in my home.

And outside, with another 130 or so plants, that feeling continues. The garden changes with the seasons, the weather, and the plants themselves.

Instead of coming home to a static environment, I come home to a living one.

Caring for Plants Can Create a Sense of Purpose

Having a lot of plants means there is always something to do.

That might sound like a downside, but I find the opposite to be true.

There is comfort in having small responsibilities that matter. Water this one. Check that one. Move another closer to the window. Repot the plant that has outgrown its container.

These tasks may not seem significant in isolation, but together they create a rhythm.

And sometimes having a reason to get up and care for something is exactly what we need.

Plants Don’t Demand Perfection

One of the things I love most about plants is that they don’t require us to be perfect.

Despite all the care we give them, things still go wrong.

A leaf dies. A plant gets stressed. Something gets overwatered. A cutting doesn’t make it.

And that’s okay.

Plant care teaches us to respond rather than panic. We learn to observe, adjust, try again, and accept that not everything is within our control.

In that way, plants can teach patience not only with them, but with ourselves.

The Joy Is Bigger Than the Work

Yes, caring for more than 270 plants is work.

There are days when watering alone feels like an undertaking. There are unexpected problems to solve. There are moments when I wonder how I ended up with quite so many plants.

But then I notice a new leaf.

Or a flower opens.

Or I see a plant thriving that once looked like it wasn’t going to make it.

And suddenly, the work feels worthwhile.

That’s the beautiful thing about therapeutic hobbies: they don’t necessarily eliminate effort. Instead, they can make effort feel meaningful.

A Little More Green, A Little More Joy

I don’t think you need hundreds of plants to experience the benefits of caring for them.

One plant on a windowsill can be enough.

A small herb garden can be enough. A few houseplants can be enough. Even growing something from a seed and watching it develop can provide that same sense of connection.

For me, though, plants have become a significant part of how I experience home and everyday life.

My 140-plus indoor plants and 130-plus outdoor plants require plenty of care. But they give back in ways that are difficult to measure.

They give me moments of quiet.

They give me something to look forward to.

They give me opportunities to nurture, observe, learn, and be patient.

Most importantly, they give me joy.

And perhaps that’s the real reason caring for plants can be so therapeutic: we aren’t simply taking care of plants. We’re creating little moments of connection with something alive—and, in the process, taking a little better care of ourselves.

How Many Plants Is Too Many?

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The year 2020 seemed to blow the lid off plant addiction and hoarding.  More people than ever before have developed an obsession for houseplants, which makes sense since we have all pretty much been going stir crazy since the beginning of COVID-19 and lockdown.  It makes sense that we all turned to these beautiful, air-purifying, living things to enhance our home spaces and give us something to focus on besides our troubles.

There is a fascinating psychology behind collecting plants which differs from accumulation of inanimate collectible items.  Houseplants can have an incredibly calming, stress-reducing effect on us, and they also nicely soften the look and feel of home environments while also cleaning the air.  In addition, the rewards of watching a plant thriving under one’s care are considerable.  I know that every time one of my plants pushes out new growth, I get almost giddy with excitement.  

To be honest, I don’t even remember precisely how last year’s plant obsession really started.  I remember seeing and ordering two  Epipremnum cebu blues on May 27th, and two Zamioculcas zamiifolia ravens on Etsy on May 31st, two weeks after my father’s passing.  After that, it’s kind of a green blur.  My indoor plant count is now at 140.  That’s enough for me, because I have run out of reasonable space.

I think my dad’s death, the lockdown and hysteria surrounding COVID, my two roommates suddenly bailing on me, the loss of work, the fact that my weekly in-person visits with my mom were halted for six months, all pushed me into a very specific nesting mode.  I wanted to spruce up my place, and make it cozy and cool.  I added an outdoor fountain which immediately attracted mosquitoes during the warmer months (lesson learned, but I still have the fountain).  I added comfy pillows to all the seating in my living room and den, imparting a Bohemian vibe which I really enjoy.

After lockdown began, I had no desire to hoard things like clothing or little knick-knacks, though I know other people who began accumulating such items.  Instead, I wanted all the plants which caught my eye, living things I could nurture and watch grow, which also helped to melt away my stress. Though I am not one of those people who talks to their plants or names them (a select few have names…more on this in another post), I am aware of every single plant in my home. I know if a leaf is turning yellow, if a specimen needs to be rotated to get more even sun exposure.

So how many plants would be considered overkill?  Though I think the answer is quite subjective, there is an interesting Australian article which analyzes the optimal number of plants one should have in a room:

https://www.bhg.com.au/how-many-plants-you-need-per-room

Plants not only clean the air, they have a relaxing and calming effect on humans, so why have a limit on the number of plants to pack into a space?  My personal take on this is that I think it’s a mistake to allow one’s plant collection to overtake essential areas in a home, such as a kitchen counter, coffee table, floor space in a shower, stairs, and doorways, with the last two creating hazards since they would impede a speedy exit if a natural disaster were to occur.  It’s also a bad idea to put plants in spots where they clearly wouldn’t survive, such as a very dark room with no grow lights added.

I have my plants placed so strategically in my home that no one ever guesses that I have 140 indoor plants.  Although I fully address the light and humidity needs of all my plants, I also make sure they harmonize with the space they are in and look like they belong where they are.   I will never be one to buy a massive shelving unit or glass cabinet in which to shove my plants, because I think it looks supremely unattractive, and also ironically doesn’t showcase the plants optimally.  Whenever I see a plant person with a large shelving unit which is littered with plants, I know that the plant person is the only one who can fully appreciate all the specimens on the shelves, because they all tend to get lost in one big jumble.

I’ve heard some criticism from a couple of close friends about my plant collection, but I know that they don’t have the same mindset that someone who is into plants would have, so I’m not bothered by the snide remarks.  Ultimately, what matters is how a plant person feels about their plant collection.

My First Home Houseplant Tour – 120+ Plants!

Here is the first houseplant video tour I shot, which I did last month.  My indoor plant count was over 120, and now (I am writing this on March 23rd), I have exactly 140 indoor plants. Believe it or not (and many of my friends won’t believe me when I say this), I am for the most part done with searching for plants to add to my collection.  As I ventured into more exotic, rare, and challenging plant species, and acquired the varieties which were on my wishlist, I felt that I could finally focus on admiring what I had instead of getting myself into trouble and looking for more plants.

Besides, I am out of room.  I bet there are plant people reading that last sentence who are saying, “Nonsense! Just make room!  Take over your bookcases! Take over your counters!”  I simply can’t do that, because I have this strange built-in aversion to having anything encroaching upon functional areas of my living space.  I have a kitchen counter which I would like to keep using (but check out what I did with my kitchen counter to accommodate plants), I have a desk which needs to remain functional, and I have no intention of getting rid of my beloved books to make room for green things.

Those Crazy Plant People

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If someone had told me at the end of 2019 that in 2020, I would surpass the level of plant of obsession I experienced in 2000-2002, I would have argued that it would never happen.  Yet here I am, with over 100 indoor plants (119 at the time of writing this post, to be exact), still thinking about the next plant I intend to add to my wishlist.  I am in good company too, because there is massive and ever growing community of plant fanatics which is knit together by countless social media plant influencers, Facebook groups, and online plant shops.  As long as we continue to be sequestered in our homes and encouraged to continue to practice social distancing, the frenzy over hoarding plants is likely to intensify.

Plant people create plant communities inside their homes which serve as therapy and great comfort during the lockdown and social turmoil which has us roiled.  There are times when I will walk around my home, surveying the lush environment I have created, noting the character of each plant, and I honestly appreciate them all.  Then there’s the anticipation of ordering a plant online, which is akin to meeting a new potential love interest.  I can honestly say that I have become giddy after finding a coveted plant and ordering it.  And when a plant arrives in the mail, I want to open the parcel immediately, not only because I am concerned for the living thing inside the box, but I simply can’t wait to feast my eyes on the new addition to my plant collection.

Now that I am a “plant person” once again, I have picked up a tremendous amount of knowledge of nomenclature and plant care.  I have encountered a number of other plant people who could definitely be accused of being plant snobs, using terms like “etiolated” or “pubescent leaves”, and showing disgust when someone doesn’t know what they are talking about.  For the most part, though, plant people tend to be very positive, caring, and friendly.