I love the drive that competitors have and certainly understand it first-hand. There is something exhilarating about preparing for a contest that no other goal delivers for me, so I plan to continue competing for as many years as I possibly can. However, I have spoken with people who have chosen to abandon the stage for a multitude of reasons, which I will discuss here.

Contest Placings: Some individuals get so fed up and discouraged by poor contest placings that they decide to throw in the towel after a while. Those who are realistic will acknowledge their own shortcomings as competitors and harbor a positive attitude, while others may harbor resentment over being passed over by opponents who usually have won their placings fairly.

Not Into It: Though it surprises a contest addict like me to hear, some people have told me that after doing one or several contests, they realized that competing wasn’t something that resonated with them.

Cost: I will tell you honestly that it is VERY costly to compete. Even a local contest has expenses which include entry fees, tan, suit, and accessories. Expenses can become dramatically higher if you factor in makeup and hair services, coaching and training, posing sessions, food, and supplements. If you travel for contests, there are numerous travel expenses which include flight, hotel, rental car, bag fees, gym fees, and incidentals. Believe me, it all adds up. So I am not surprised when people step back from competing for financial reasons.

Physical Demands: It is a challenge to keep up with the intensity of training and cardio which molds a physique into contest-ready shape. Injuries and illness can put roadblocks into contest prep, as can overtraining. I have seen some competitors train so stubbornly and intensely, then exhaust themselves to the point that they are too drained to even think about stepping onstage.

Life events: No one is immune to the impact that a major life event such as a wedding, divorce, job change, move, or death in the family can have on the natural patterns of life that we become accustomed to. Such events can really throw a wrench in the works, and only the most stubborn and determined individuals can stay on track during trying times.