My Favorite Coffee

Peets I LOVE Peet’s Coffee and consider it our favorite brand. Over the past few months I picked a favorite blend too, which is pictured here. The flavor and freshness of this brand are unparalleled, and I found out why. One day when I was in the grocery store picking out coffee, I started chatting with the Peet’s Coffee supplier who was stocking the shelves. He told me that Peet’s Coffee is always fresh, unlike other brands which can sit on the store shelves for months. I really do notice a pronounced difference in the flavor and the balance of Peet’s over all other brands.

Are You A Skin Picker?

DermatillomaniaI know that many of you may find it irresistible to pick and squeeze acne blemishes and scabs which pop up on your skin. However, there are individuals who take this compulsion to an extreme and create abrasions and divots in their skin even when there is no blemish in sight. These people suffer from a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder known as dermatillomania or skin picking disorder.

The characteristics which separate a dermatillomania sufferer from a relatively “normal” tendency to pick are:

• Repetitive picking at the skin
• Picking which is severe enough to cause tissue damage
• Social distress

People who suffer from skin picking disorder also commonly have depression and/or anxiety and low self-esteem. Common areas which sufferers tend to pick at are the face, scalp, cuticules, arms, forearms, back, hands and feet. Most of the time people will pick with their fingernails, but may also use their teeth, tweezers or scissors. This tendency may be triggered by boredom, stress, or anger, and is often such an absent-minded activity that people may not even be aware that they are picking. The picking behavior often provides relief from tension, but what frequently follows is guilt and feelings of shame. The most extreme cases are best treated with psychotherapy and medication, while milder cases can often be successfully treated with behavior modification.

I frequently see patients who have neurotic excoriations (areas of irritated, abraded skin) and areas of brown hyperpigmentation (from older spots which have been picked) which are dead giveaways to skin picking disorder. The typical patient I see is anxious and perceives any real or fabricated skin imperfection is distorted in significance. The sufferer may experience satisfaction after picking at the skin, but a vicious cycle sets in by which the open sores are constantly picked at, making them far worse and decreasing the likelihood that they will heal without some permanent scarring.

Here are a few suggestions for mild skin pickers to practice in order to break the cycle of picking.

1. Avoid spending excessive amounts of time looking in the mirror for areas to pick.
2. Remember that the zone of infection is an inverted triangle spanning across the eyes and down to the area below the mouth.
3. ANY area of the skin that is picked at can develop infection.
4. Keep fingernails short to make it more difficult to use your nails as a picking tool.
5. Avoid using tweezers to pick at skin.
6. When you get an acne blemish, DO NOT pick at it or attempt to extract it. Instead, apply ice to the blemish, use hydrocortisone cream, or apply old fashioned toothpaste (Crest original formula is perfect) to the blemish.
7. Remember that an acne blemish is far better than an abrasion, scab that doesn’t heal from constant picking, brown hyperpigmentation, or a permanent sunken scar.

I am saddened by the people who come in for cosmetic dermatology treatments who exhibit the signs of skin picking disorder. The most common patient is female, between late teens to early 40’s, and has a palpable anxious energy. Though I can always spot a patient with the disorder by the telltale excoriations, the patient’s embarrassment is heightened when the cover-up makeup comes off and I can see hyperpigmentation from areas that were picked at previously. I cannot tell you how many attractive women have come into my office who have essentially ruined their skin by picking at it. No blemish is worth picking at, especially when permanent scarring can result.

Vision Boards and Vision Boxes

visionboard1A few years back I started both a vision board and a vision box to help me visualize what I wanted to accomplish in my life. While the vision board was limited to a couple of images of female competitors who had the physique I wanted to attain, the vision box held (and still does) clippings of the house I wanted, vacations I wanted to take, and other coveted elements. I have yet to acquire the home and the vacations I wanted, but I have been able to travel as a result of competitions and other fitness events, and I reached my goal of having an enviable physique despite getting older with each passing year.

I now firmly believe in the power of vision boards and vision boxes because they enable one to truly envision what they want. Goals and dreams become tangible when they are focused on with intention. There is a great deal of power in putting your intentions out to the universe and empowering yourself to make the movements and changes which absolutely can manifest in reality. You should frequently look at the items you collect and harvest the belief that they can all come true. Great things happen to those who put their energies towards moving towards goals, no matter how lofty they may be.

Why I Am Against Instant Oatmeal

oatmealI know people lead very hectic lifestyles these days, and believe me, I can relate. Work, training, meetings, appointments, chores, errands, modeling, fitness and bodybuilding events, writing, shooting videos, and managing websites and social media keep me going at a frenetic pace every day. Yet I make sure I have a few minutes to prepare a nutritious morning meal every single day. I become very irritated when I hear patients and clients say that they have ZERO time to prepare a nutritious breakfast. Are you serious about not having even five minutes in the morning to take care of your own health? Come on.

Patients often proudly tell me that they are eating oatmeal every day, but when I ask them what type, they tell me they grab the instant variety. This irritates me to no end. You still have to put the oatmeal in a bowl, boil the water which takes about three minutes, then mix. When I make my old-fashioned oats, I combine them in a saucepan with water and a dash of cinnamon, then let the mixture cook for three minutes. So what if I take an extra 30 seconds to transfer the cooked oatmeal into a bowl?

Another thing I think is disgusting about instant oats is that the oat and water mixture often does not mix well, so you have a gloppy, soupy mixture which has to set for at least a minute so that it will thicken. Halfway through that extra minute in which you are waiting for your instant oatmeal to thicken, I am already eating my old-fashioned oatmeal.

You may wonder what the big deal is about eating the plain oats versus the instant variety. There are artificial flavors, thickening agents, sugar, and salt in the instant packs which lowers the nutrient density of the oatmeal. In addition, since there is so much processing which occurs in the manufacture of the instant variety of this food item, vitamins and minerals are added to replace what has been stripped from the original oats. Why go through all this when you can choose the least processed version which is the most nutritious?

Bear in mind that the cereal industry is counting on you grabbing the instant variety because of its attractive packaging. Guess what? The instant oatmeal is far more expensive than the old fashioned oats which have one item on their ingredient list: “OATS”. Just because a food item comes in a single serving envelope and only requires you to add hot water does NOT mean it will shave off significant time from your morning meal prep. Remember what I mentioned earlier about total prep time? Here’s a reminder:

INSTANT OATMEAL PREP:
Tear packet and pour oatmeal into bowl (5 seconds)
Boil water (3 minutes)
Pour water over oat mixture and stir (20 seconds)
Let sit for 1 minute to thicken (1 minute)
TOTAL PREP TIME = 4 minutes, 25 seconds

OLD-FASHIONED OATMEAL PREP:
Combine oats and water in a saucepan with a dash of cinnamon (10 seconds)
Cook mixture on medium heat for three minutes, stirring occasionally (3 minutes)
Remove from heat and pour into bowl (10 seconds)
TOTAL PREP TIME = 3 minutes, 20 seconds

If you insist on eating instant oatmeal, at least go for the healthier versions. The best out there is Trader Joe’s Organic Oats and Flax Instant Oatmeal, which contains: organic rolled oats, organic dehydrated cane juice solids, organic flax seed, sea salt.