What is a True Mirror? It’s a non-image-reversing mirror, nestled in a box frame, which enables you to see yourself as others see you. The issue with the True Mirror is that it can be quite jarring to finally see oneself as everyone else sees them. John Walter, the founder of the brand True Mirror, states in an email to Alix Tunell from RealSelf News:
“For many people, especially image-conscious people, the perception of asymmetry is overwhelming. It’s unfortunate, because it’s exaggerated—because things are on the opposite side [from what you’re used to seeing], they get doubled in your own perception.”
This was certainly the case for me the first time I looked into the True Mirror, and I was so rattled by my facial asymmetry that I refused to gaze into the contraption for several days. I understand now that my brain is still exaggerating subtle differences when I look into the True Mirror, and that I can gain comfort by looking into a standard reversing mirror. I also understand that the True Mirror is best appreciated when your face is animated, because you will then see the true reflection of your energy. It’s a complete trip and something I would recommend to anyone.
I absolutely love this Ted Talk by Caroline McHugh, so I am reposting it a second time. She is a brilliant woman who speaks so eloquently and honestly about the sense of self.
You might not have thought much about this, but your perception of your own face is different than what other people see. The most frequent view we have of ourselves is in a mirror, which is a flipped version of how we really look. However, since the image we see is inverted, we often feel more comfortable with how we look in a mirror, as opposed to photographs. We also have the option of looking at selfies, which are even worse, since they distort our features due to the wide-angle design of the camera lens.
The closest representation of how others see us is via photographs, but depending on the lens type used, even photos can present distortions which don’t accurately represent our faces. We may think the camera is capturing us exactly how others perceive us, but those lenses often make some features more prominent than others, and thus quite different from how we really look. Another big factor which comes into play with looking in a mirror or at a photograph is that both are two-dimensional images, so we can never truly appreciate our own faces as the dynamic, three-dimensional countenances which others see.
There is a concept called the True Mirror which enables us to regard our own faces exactly as others do. For a great TED lecture on face recognition which discusses the True Mirror, check out this link:
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Evidently there is a money saving hack which has been trending on social media, in which you label 100 envelopes with numbers, ranging in sequence from 1 to 100. The number on each envelope is the dollar amount which you are supposed to put in the envelope. The idea is that you would place money into an envelope every single day for 100 days, and at the end of those 100 days, you would have $5,050, which is quite impressive. The envelopes are picked at random each day, so the amount you place in the envelope will be a surprise.
However, for people like me who are always cash poor, it would be difficult to gather up actual cash and physically place it into an envelope every day. It also seems rather challenging to try to come up with $100 cash when the 100 envelope is pulled, so a couple of variations include numbering the envelopes from 1 to 50 twice or 1 to 20 five times. You could as another option use an online banking or cash app and add the money that way.
I recently had a random memory which popped up in my head a few weeks ago of a maroon satin dress which captured my attention as a pre-teen and which made me feel like a disco queen. Granted, I got the dress in 1977, so it makes sense that I felt disco vibes whenever I wore it. It featured spaghetti straps, had a hidden elastic waist, and a slender A-line skirt which hugged my emerging curves. Unfortunately, I don’t have any images of me wearing the frock, but I remember it so vividly, and I will never forget how it made me feel. It had a lovely silky feel to it and fit so nicely.
Of course I can’t find anything online that approximates the style of the dress I had as a kid, but I found a sexy modern take on a satin dress:
Who remembers the ever so popular kids’ drink Shirley Temple? I recall that this mocktail was incredibly popular in the 1970’s, and I was of course obsessed with it. A Shirley Temple basically consists of ginger ale, grenadine syrup, and a maraschino cherry, and is quite sweet and effervescent. What blows my mind is how I actually enjoyed the maraschino cherries which were part of this refreshment, because I don’t think I would be able to eat a maraschino cherry these days. I’m quite sure that the ones I consumed as a child were colored with Red 40, which is commonly used in making these cherries. The thing about Red 40 is that it is derived from petroleum distillates, a fact which alarms me. Fortunately, Luxardo brand Maraschino Cherries do not have this dangerous food dye.
For those of you who might want to travel down memory lane, here is a recipe for this classic concoction:
Add ice cubes to a tall glass.
Pour 1 ounce grenadine syrup into the glass.
Pour 8 ounces of ginger ale and stir gently. If you don’t like ginger ale, you can use a lemon-lime soda such as Sprite or 7-Up.
Add maraschino cherries for garnish (preferably Luxardo!).
Who remembers these Kissing Potions from the 1970’s and 1980’s?
I remember being completely obsessed with Kissing Potion roller tip lip glosses when I was a preteen and teenager, so I was delighted when I found out that Tinte Cosmetics sold these awesome retro glosses. My favorite scent/flavor was Bubble Gum, an iconic, true bubble gum vibe which Tinte Cosmetics captured beautifully. Of course when I placed an order on the website, I had to get Strawberry Swirl, another favorite flavor. The consistency of the gloss is thick, the finish is very glossy, and Tinte nailed the scents so well that I was transported back to the days of roller rinks and drive-in movie theaters. I might have to order Watermelon,Piña Colada and Cherry Smash so that I have all the varieties I loved as a youngster.
Here’s the description of the Bubble Gum Kissing Potion:
Bubble Gum KISSING POTION ® Roll on the ORIGINAL Sweet Shine! TINte Cosmetics will take you back to the 70’s & 80’s with our delicious KISSING POTION ® ! As ultra shiny and thick & slick as you remember. Each with its own roller-ball top. Roll on our shiny, sweet gloss over bare lips or roll it on over lipstick it’s the perfect product for creating sweet shine that lasts. Get ready for the complements. As always each of our products is enriched with nourishing Shea Butter. No color, just great glossy power and delicious shine. This product is paraben free, and as always cruelty free.
There are two full-time biscuit makers in my household, and they certainly take their roles very seriously, especially since their roles were self-appointed. The first is my 15-year-old blue American Burmese cat Tenshi, who likes to make mini biscuits, seen here:
Then there is my 1-year-old cream European Burmese cat Sumi, who is a diligent worker who puts in several shifts each day in order to make sure biscuit production is optimal. Her work sessions are intense and focused:
I’m willing to bet that most of you who are reading this blog post remember your first romantic kiss in decent detail, so I hope this inspires you to think about that special moment in your life. You might be wondering why I gave this blog post the title it is sporting, but after I share the story of my first romantic kiss, you’ll understand why. My first real smooch with a boy was indeed memorable!
During the summer when I turned 12, I would spend alternate weekends at my dad’s apartment, and I would often bring my close friend Dana with me. My dad had moved into a new apartment complex, so I had many opportunities to meet kids who were close to my age, but one boy caught my eye. His name was Mark, he had a crop of wavy sandy brown hair, piercing blue eyes, a charming smile, and he was 16 years old. Mark and I took a liking to each other immediately, and he got into the habit of coming over to my dad’s apartment with his acoustic guitar and serenading me, which obviously had me swooning.
One afternoon, Mark sauntered over to my dad’s place, eating a banana. When he saw me walking towards him, he stopped eating, smiled, and asked me if he could come inside and hang out with me. Since my dad was at his office and wouldn’t be home for a while, I knew we would at least have some privacy, so I said sure. Mark walked into the living room and sat down on the sofa, then patted the spot next to him, encouraging me to sit there. I sat down, then Mark gently moved me so that my head was in his lap, then he leaned down and kissed me. The taste of banana was a bit strange, but the kiss was as great as a first kiss could be, even though I didn’t exactly know what to do. I figured if I mimicked what Mark was doing with his lips and tongue, that I’d be just fine.
After that first kiss, we spent a lot of time kissing and hanging out together, and Mark would regularly serenade me while sitting out on the steps in front of Dad’s place. We might have continued to spend time together after summer ended, but Mark moved away in the fall, and I never saw him again. I guess I could consider Mark my first boyfriend, despite the fact that we only saw each other every other weekend, and only for one summer. Looking back, I find it startling that a 16-year-old boy found a 12-year-old girl so enticing, but I guess that speaks volumes about how two people can be attracted to each other and not give any thought to an age difference or other variables. I thought Mark was so attractive, and I am grateful that my first romantic kiss was with a boy who truly showed interest in me, even though that kiss was tinged with the taste of banana!
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