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Balcony Battles: How I Finally Won the War on Rats

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If you had told me last summer that my quiet little balcony would become the front line of a full-blown rodent war, I would have laughed. Yet there I was, by late September, locked in an ongoing ordeal with some of the boldest, most destructive rats I’ve ever encountered.

It started subtly—almost innocently. I would see one, maybe two rats joining in on morning squirrel feedings, and I thought they were amusing to watch. Then one morning I realized they had completely severed the lighting adaptor cord which fed the five LED lights in the relaxation fountain on my balcony. That was my first oh no, this is serious moment.

Things escalated quickly after that.

The rats somehow managed to get inside my four-burner propane grill. Imagine getting ready to heat up the grill, only to see a filthy rat scurrying across the grill rack. Needless to say, I quickly resorted to heating up the broiler to cook the steaks I had bought. Despite cleaning and disinfecting the grill, there was no way I would ever put food items on it, so it had to go. Getting rid of it turned into an event worthy of its own sitcom episode. One person had to climb a nine-foot ladder just to reach the balcony, while another lifted the bulky grill up and over the railing so it could be carefully lowered to the ground. All that effort… just to dispose of a grill that rats had claimed as real estate.

As the holidays approached, I hoped things might calm down. Nope. The rats decided to add seasonal flair to their destruction by chewing on one of my Christmas decorations. Festive, but not in the way I’d envisioned.

I tried to handle the rat situation responsibly. I put out bait stations filled with dextrose pellets, confident I was being strategic and humane. The rats, apparently unimpressed by my efforts, ignored the bait stations entirely and went straight for what they really wanted: my hummingbird feeder.

Not only did they attack it—they dismantled it. They chewed off the floral feeding spouts like tiny vandals with dental degrees. That was the moment I realized I needed to level up.

So I did.

I invested in a 76-inch-tall shepherd’s hook, a tube-style squirrel baffle, and a brand-new hummingbird feeder. I also installed ultrasonic deterrents across my balcony, turning it into what I can only assume sounded like an unwelcoming nightclub for rodents.

And finally… it worked.

After weeks of trial, error, frustration, and more than a little disbelief, my efforts paid off. The rats stopped coming. No more chewed cords. No more unwanted balcony guests. No more destruction.

There is one bittersweet consequence: the squirrels rarely visit now, especially since I had to stop morning feedings. I really miss them, especially the ones whom I could hand-feed. Those twitchy-tailed freeloaders were at least entertaining and mostly polite. But in the end, it’s a small price to pay.

The balcony is peaceful again. The rats are gone. And after everything they put me through, I can confidently say: victory has never felt so satisfying. 🐀🚫

The Quiet Power of a Turning Cycle

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Lately, I’ve been doing a lot of deep cleaning. Not the rushed, surface-level kind, but the slow, intentional kind. Drawers emptied. Closets reconsidered. Repairs finally handled instead of postponed. I bought a new comforter set. Shifted furniture. Made small but meaningful changes to the way my home feels when I walk into it.

On the surface, it looks like homemaking. But underneath, it feels like something much bigger.

The closest metaphor I can find is this: it’s as if I’m downloading an updated operating system for my brain. A new version of me. One that’s more streamlined, less cluttered, and better aligned with how I actually live now—not how I lived decades ago, or how I thought I was supposed to live.

In five months, I turn 60.

That number carries weight, whether we want it to or not. It’s a cultural milestone, but it’s also a personal reckoning. Sixty isn’t about decline—it’s about integration. It’s the age where experience stops being something you collect and starts being something you embody.

What makes this moment feel especially charged is the timing. Today marks the first day of the Year of the Fire Horse, and I was born in a Fire Horse year—1966. In the Chinese zodiac, the Horse is associated with movement, freedom, independence, and raw life force. Add the Fire element, and you get intensity, passion, and transformation. Fire Horse energy is bold and uncompromising. It doesn’t tiptoe into the next chapter—it runs.

Fire Horse years are rare. They return only every 60 years.

So here I am, nearly 60, living through the same energetic signature that ushered me into the world. It feels like a full circle moment—less like starting over and more like completing a long arc. A spiral returning to its origin, but at a higher level of understanding.

That’s what the cleaning is really about.

I’m not just clearing dust. I’m clearing outdated assumptions. I’m repairing things I once ignored. I’m choosing comfort and beauty not as indulgence, but as necessity. My home is becoming a clearer reflection of who I am now—what I value, what I want to maintain, and what I’m ready to let go of.

There’s something deeply grounding about tending to your physical space when your inner landscape is shifting. It creates a dialogue between the visible and the invisible. Every repaired hinge, every refreshed corner, every intentional choice says: I’m paying attention. I’m here. I’m not rushing past this moment.

This doesn’t feel like crisis. It feels like calibration.

If life really does move in cycles, then this one feels like a completion—and an ignition at the same time. A moment to honor everything that brought me here, while clearing the runway for what comes next. The Fire Horse doesn’t look backward with regret or forward with fear. It stands firmly in its power, ready to move when the moment is right.

And maybe that’s what this season is asking of me—not to reinvent myself, but to arrive fully as myself, updated and awake, standing in a space I’ve consciously prepared.

A cycle completed. A fire still burning. 🐎🔥

Creativity Burst

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Ever since last October, my brain has been happily buzzing with ideas on how to express myself more in my home space. I’ve been in full-on maker mode—hands busy, ideas clicking, with that satisfying rhythm of “oh, I can fix this” and “wait… what if I tried this?” It makes sense to me, since crafts and repairs hit two different creative muscles: one playful and expressive, the other practical and problem-solving. When both are firing, I feel capable and curious at the same time, which is kind of a power combo.

What’s cool is that this kind of creative flow often feeds on itself. Finishing a repair makes me more confident, which makes me bolder with crafts, which makes me want to try something slightly weirder or more ambitious next. It’s like momentum I can feel in my hands. Of note is the situation I ran into in early December while putting Christmas decorations at my front door. There was an illuminated penguin with a top hat and scarf which I planned to juxtapose next to my penguin in a Santa hat, but I had waited an entire year after purchasing it in late december 2024 to display it. Instead of inspecting the components to ensure that everything would fit, I mistakenly assumed that there would be no issues, and I placed it on the shelf to use for Christmas 2025.

When I opened the box and attempted to assemble the penguin, I noticed that the construction was way off, and that it would be impossible to put it together unless I devised a creative solution. For several days, I honestly thought I would have to toss the decoration in the trash, but I had a flash of insight while putting up other decorations. Instead of fretting over the fact that the connecting poles were far too long for the height of the penguin, I aligned the poles alongside each other, used duct tape to keep them at the proper length, then assembled the penguin. Since the poles are inside the body of the penguin, and not visible, the duct tape was not an issue. Problem solved, and in a creative way!

My other holiday-themed creative triumph was my Nightmare Before Christmas–themed tree? The tree offered a perfect blend of spooky, nostalgic, and whimsical, while honoring one of my favorite films. It was a great way to repurpose a small tree that had previously been decorated in a very traditional fashion. I got rid of my woodland creature ornaments that used to adorn the tree, and came up with a theme that felt completely congruent with what I was passionate about. Jack Skellington would absolutely approve.

A more recent problem to solve was to create ambient lighting in my living room which would complement the existing ambient lighting. I ended up placing up lights on the floor by the entertainment center which are dimmable, creating even more of a relaxing vibe. They are subtle, but they carry the kind of impact and mood I was seeking.

Deep Cleaning and Decluttering

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Over this recent period, I’ve been intentionally tending to my home as a way of tending to myself. Each task I completed was not just about cleaning or organizing, but about restoring a sense of peace, agency, and care in my daily life. Moving through these spaces with purpose helped me reconnect with myself and reminded me that small, consistent acts can be deeply healing.

I began by decluttering and reorganizing existing storage, including carefully sorting through holiday ornaments and letting go of items that no longer served me. Releasing what I didn’t need created both physical space and emotional breathing room. At the same time, I chose to bring in gentle moments of joy, like adding new Christmas stockings for the cats — a small but meaningful expression of warmth, playfulness, and love that made my home feel more alive and personal.

I spent time thoughtfully organizing my makeup and fragrances, transforming what had once felt scattered into something intentional and inviting. This shift made my daily routines feel more like rituals of self-respect rather than obligations. I also worked through closets throughout the home — the bedroom, master closet, gym closet, laundry area, and other storage spaces — cleaning, sorting, and creating systems that feel sustainable. With each cleared shelf and reorganized space, I felt a growing sense of clarity, stability, and confidence.

Alongside this inner and outer clearing, I made practical upgrades that supported my well-being. Refreshing the bedroom with new comforter sets transformed it into a space of comfort and rest, a place where I can truly recharge. I also deep-cleaned the master bathroom and other key areas, restoring them as calm, supportive spaces for daily care and grounding.

Altogether, this work has been an act of self-affirmation. By caring for my environment with intention, I reinforced the belief that I deserve a home that supports me, comforts me, and reflects who I am becoming. As my space has grown more organized, warm, and intentional, I’ve felt lighter, steadier, and more empowered in my life. This process has reminded me that tending to my surroundings is a meaningful way of honoring my own growth and well-being.

Hanging With A Couple Of Favorite Candle Scents

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Fir & Firewood by Capri Blue is the ultimate Christmas tree scent!

As a self-proclaimed scented candle fanatic, I have definitely selected some fragrances which are favorites. Two of my favorites are actually promoted and sold as holiday candles, but I use them year-round because they don’t scream Christmas like some aromatic varieties do. The two limited-edition holiday candles with which I can honestly say I am obsessed are Nest’s Blue Cypress & Snow, and Fir & Firewood by Capri Blue.

Blue Cypress & Snow is described as: “Create the aroma of a snow-covered mountain retreat in winter with NEST New York’s candle collection, featuring notes of crisp blue cypress, juniper berry, and hints of smoked vanilla bean.” What does it smell like? Fresh woods, nestled in cozy, warm vanilla. I don’t even like the smell of vanilla, but this combination is absolutely beautiful. I think it’s a bit heavy for the middle of summer, but it absolutely works any other time of the year. Although Nest only sells this one during the holiday season, there are other stores which sell this for a good portion of the year.

Fir & Firewood is described in this way: “Fruity, green aroma of apple, clove, fir, pine needle, white birch, cedar, vetiver, and musk.” The fruit and clove mellow out the sharpness of the pine, birch and cedar, resulting in the ultimate Christmas tree scent. It’s definitely festive, but the scent profile works for anyone who likes forest type, woody aromas. This one is hard to find, but worth the effort to dig up.

New Holiday Decorations

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Last year, I took my Halloween and Christmas decorations to the next level, all because I was inspired by the talented residents in my city who decorated their homes. Every year, the city of Burbank has a Halloween decorated house contest, and because there are many Burbank residents who work in the film and TV industry, the artistry and creativity exhibited are significant. For whatever reason, I was swept up in the festive energy of Halloween last October, and I made close to a dozen excursions to various neighborhoods in Burbank to see all the decorations.

During prior years, all I did in terms of decorating my place for Halloween was to put up wooden plaques of Jack Skellington and Sally at my front door, display three plastic skeletons (cat, Dachshund dog, and a rat) on the railing around my second-floor balcony, and string up orange and purple lights on the balcony. Last year, I added a 6-foot-tall Jack Skellington, a matching Sally, and a matching Zero, all three of which hung near the front door entrance. My place really stood out because I was the only resident in my community who put up any Halloween decorations, but my friends and I really enjoyed seeing those decorations. This year, I will be adding another element which should be a lot of fun to have as part of the display.

My Halloween decorations on Halloween 2025

Then as Christmas approached last year, I was inspired to continue the Nightmare Before Christmas story theme by adding an animatronic Jack Skellington (dressed as Sandy Claws) at my front door. I also switched the decorations on a 4.5-foot tree which I always put in my den area so that the Nightmare Before Christmas theme pervaded the tree. I also created a spiral at the tip of the tree to mimic the shape of Spiral Hill. The results were truly fantastic!

My front door display for Christmas 2025

I ended up with so many Nightmare Before Christmas ornaments and decorations for the 4.5-foot tree that it ended up being a bit overloaded, so this year, the decorations will adorn a 6-foot pencil tree. The 4.5-foot tree will undergo yet another decorating facelift, and I am truly excited for what I plan to create when I put that tree up in late November of this year. I know it sounds like overkill to have THREE Christmas trees (I have a 7.5-foot cashmere tree as the main tree) in the house this year, but I am having fun with all of it. Thank goodness I have enough space in my garage to store all the items!

This was a great launching point for the Nightmare Before Christmas theme inside the house!

New Pet, Suddenly Allergic?

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It’s a really interesting and somewhat frustrating phenomenon when people develop allergies to new pets, even if they’ve lived with pets for years without issue. This just happened to me when I introduced a new kitten into my home. All these years, I had lived peacefully with my pets with no issues, but all it took was one sweet kitten with her dander to spike my allergic response!

There are several factors that could explain sudden allergic responses when a new pet is introduced to the home.

1. Different Allergen Profiles

Each pet produces different types and amounts of allergens. For instance:

  • Cats and Dogs: These animals produce dander (tiny, often invisible flakes of skin) that can trigger allergic reactions. However, not all animals produce the same type or quantity of allergens. A person may have developed tolerance to the specific dander or protein in their existing pets, but a new pet may have a different protein structure that their immune system perceives as a threat.
  • Species Differences: Even between different breeds of dogs or cats, there can be differences in the types of allergens they release. For example, some dog breeds shed less fur or produce different amounts of dander than others. This might explain why someone living with one breed of dog doesn’t experience symptoms, but develops an allergy when adopting a new breed.

2. Immune System Changes

Over time, a person’s immune system can change. Allergies can develop at any age, and the immune system can become sensitized to new allergens at any point in life, even if the person hasn’t had problems before. This might explain why someone who has lived with pets for years can suddenly develop an allergy to a new pet.

  • Delayed Sensitization: It’s possible that the immune system, over time, becomes sensitized to certain proteins present in animal dander, and the person’s immune response triggers once it encounters a threshold. They might not have had a strong reaction to their old pet, but a new pet could have more potent allergens that push the immune system into overdrive.

3. Environmental and Lifestyle Factors

The environment plays a role in how allergens impact someone. If a person moves to a new home or changes their lifestyle, it could increase their exposure to allergens in a way that makes them more likely to develop a reaction.

  • New home, different allergens: If the new pet is introduced into a home with different ventilation, humidity, or dust levels, it could change how allergens accumulate and affect the person. For example, an increase in humidity could make allergens like mold or dust mites more problematic in conjunction with the pet’s dander.
  • Exposure levels: Someone may have had a lower overall exposure to allergens in the past, either due to fewer pets or less contact with them, and the new pet may push that exposure threshold.

4. Cross-Reactivity

There’s a phenomenon called cross-reactivity, where a person who is allergic to one animal might also react to allergens from a different animal. For example:

  • Cat and Dog Allergies: Some people allergic to cats might also react to dogs because the proteins responsible for causing allergies (like Fel d 1 in cats and Can f 1 in dogs) are similar. The immune system can mistake the proteins of a new pet for those of an older one.
  • Rodents, Birds, or Other Pets: People allergic to one type of pet might develop allergies to completely different animals (e.g., developing an allergy to birds after having had no issues with a dog). This is because certain proteins in saliva, fur, or feathers might have structural similarities, confusing the immune system.

5. Type and Age of the New Pet

Young pets (puppies, kittens) often shed more allergens, including fur and dander, than older pets. This could be due to the fact that they have more active skin cells or they may shed more frequently as they grow. So, even if someone was fine with an older pet, a younger one might have more dander circulating in the environment.

6. Sensitivity to Specific Proteins in Pet Saliva or Urine

It’s not just the skin dander that can cause problems. Proteins found in a pet’s saliva or urine can also trigger allergic reactions. For example:

  • Cats and Dogs Licking Fur: Both cats and dogs spread their saliva over their fur when they groom themselves, which means that their saliva proteins get transferred to their fur and skin. If a person has been exposed to the saliva of one pet for a long time without a reaction, the saliva of a new pet could be a different protein altogether, leading to an allergy.

7. Pet Care Products

It’s also worth noting that people might develop sensitivities to products used in caring for pets, such as shampoos, flea treatments, or cleaning supplies. These allergens could cause issues even if someone has lived with other pets without trouble, especially if the new pet is exposed to different brands or types of products.

8. Changes in Body’s Allergic Sensitization

As we age, our immune system changes. A person may have been exposed to the allergens of previous pets without a noticeable allergic response, but their immune system may have become more reactive over time. The introduction of a new pet might be the tipping point.

To sum it up: While someone might not have had issues with existing pets, the combination of new pet dander, proteins, environmental factors, and changes in the immune system can all contribute to the development of an allergy. If this happens, it’s important to consult with a healthcare professional for guidance on managing or alleviating symptoms.

Why Home Gyms Rock

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During my most recent visit to Hawaii in May of this year, I went to 24 Hour Fitness to get three workouts, and I was honestly rather disappointed in the experience. This is saying a lot, since I have always loved being in a commercial gym atmosphere. However, I have spent the past 5 years, ever since we were hit with Covid lockdown, primarily working out at home. I have become accustomed to being able to work on any body part I want, with whatever apparatus I need to use, without having to wait for equipment or work in with another human. I don’t have to wear earbuds for my music, and can blast whatever tunes I want without worrying about disturbing other gym goers. I don’t have to get in my car or drive anywhere, and I have 24-hour access without any additional fees. My gym smells nice and fresh, and all the equipment is clean.

Before you ask me if I can get full workouts in my home gym, I will tell you that I have no restrictions on what I can train while at home. I have a Marcy Smith Machine Multi-Gym, 285 pounds of weight plates, over 300 pounds of other weights, pulley assemblies, barbells, kettlebells, a hyperextension bench, incline bench crunch apparatus, etc. Right after I finish my workout, I hop onto a vibration plate for 10 minutes, and watch the squirrels in my neighborhood eat breakfast outside while I am getting my vibration therapy.

It’s home gym over commercial gym for me now!

Scented Candle Love

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A new favorite, Bergamot Tangerine from APOTHEKE

Luxury scented candles have a special way of enhancing a space that goes beyond just fragrance. They offer an affordable touch of indulgence—unlike many other luxury items, a well-made candle can be had without breaking the bank, yet it delivers a surprisingly rich sensory experience. As someone who enjoys scented candles from brands such as Voluspa, Archipelago Botanicals, APOTHEKE, and Nest, I know firsthand how affordable they are, as well as how much joy they bring me.

When lit, scented candles create an immediate shift in ambience. The flickering flame casts a soft, warm light that’s both calming and flattering, making any room feel more intimate and inviting. The scent adds another layer—evoking emotions, memories, or simply providing a gentle background aroma that makes a space feel cared for and curated. Whether it’s a woodsy blend, burst of fruit, or a complex and inviting floral, the right fragrance can transform a mundane evening into a soothing ritual. I light candles on a daily basis, and base my candle selection on what kind of mood I am in, as well as what kind of weather we are experiencing. For example, today was a warm, sunny day, so I opted for a refreshing grapefruit candle, and since it was in a smaller vessel, I opted to place it on my candle warmer instead of lighting it. Later tonight, after it gets dark, I will light a candle which fits my mood, settle onto the sofa in the living room, and enjoy the beautiful glow and inviting fragrance of the lit candle.

There’s also a practical bonus: by using candles for light, especially in the evening, you can reduce reliance on harsh electric lighting. This not only contributes to a more relaxing atmosphere but also supports energy conservation. It’s a small but meaningful gesture toward sustainability—proof that luxury and eco-consciousness don’t have to be at odds.

Indoor Plants Are Good For You

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As an avid plant lover, I have enjoyed the many benefits of being surrounded by beautiful greenery in my home. I honestly believe that having indoor houseplants offers a multitude of benefits. Here’s a closer look at why incorporating greenery into your home is a great idea:

Health Benefits

  1. Improved Air Quality – Many houseplants, such as spider plants and snake plants, help remove toxins like formaldehyde and benzene from the air, creating a cleaner living environment. I have several snake plants (Sansevieria genus) in my home, and appreciate the fact that they clean the air while looking very attractive and interesting.
  2. Increased Oxygen Levels – Plants release oxygen during photosynthesis, which can improve air circulation and overall respiratory health.
  3. Humidity Regulation – Plants release moisture through transpiration, which can help maintain healthy humidity levels, reducing issues like dry skin and irritated sinuses. I also help my plants out by running two humidifiers in my den and kitchen to optimize plant functions.
  4. Reduced Allergens – Some plants, like peace lilies, can trap dust and allergens, helping those with sensitivities breathe easier.
  5. Stress Reduction & Lower Blood Pressure – Studies have shown that being around greenery can help lower stress levels and even contribute to reduced blood pressure. When I am in my home, I truly feel like I am in a garden paradise, and I feel instantly calm.

Decor Benefits

  1. Aesthetic Appeal – Houseplants add natural beauty to any room, complementing different interior design styles. I make sure to stage my plants in such a way that they make sense in my interior living space, without sacrificing their ambient light needs.
  2. Versatility in Design – Whether you want a bold statement piece like a fiddle-leaf fig or a subtle accent like a small succulent, there’s a plant to match every space.
  3. Enhanced Space Perception – Large plants can fill empty corners, creating a fuller and more inviting atmosphere. If I lived in a larger home, I would definitely have tall plants strategically placed in empty corners.
  4. Seasonal Adaptability – Unlike furniture or decor that can feel outdated, plants offer a timeless appeal and can be rearranged easily for a fresh look.
  5. Brings Nature Indoors – For those in urban settings, houseplants help create a connection to nature, bringing an element of the outdoors inside.

The desk sentinels around my workspace

Mood Benefits

  1. Boosted Mental Well-Being – Studies suggest that caring for plants can reduce anxiety and depression, providing a sense of accomplishment and responsibility. I know that I have a responsibility to keep my plants as healthy as possible, and I make an effort to address their needs on a weekly basis.
  2. Increased Productivity & Focus – Plants in workspaces have been shown to enhance concentration and creativity, making them great additions to home offices. There are plants all around my desk space, and I absolutely love them.
  3. Better Sleep – Certain plants, like lavender and jasmine, have calming properties that promote relaxation and better sleep. I only wish I could keep such plants alive in my home! Instead, I use scented candles to impart a calming mood.
  4. Mood Elevation – Simply looking at greenery can evoke feelings of happiness and tranquility, making plants a natural mood booster.
  5. Encourages Mindfulness – Watering, pruning, and tending to plants can be a meditative and mindful practice, helping people slow down and enjoy the present moment. Despite the fact that my weekly plant watering is a bit of a chore, I find myself getting into a zone which is meditative and beneficial.

Final Thoughts

Houseplants do much more than just decorate a space—they contribute to better air quality, reduce stress, and create a soothing ambiance. Whether you’re looking for a productivity boost, improved well-being, or a stylish home upgrade, adding indoor plants is a simple yet impactful way to enhance your living environment.