Daruma Finally Has Two Eyes

A few weeks ago I wrote a blog post about a Japanese good luck charm known as a Daruma (please refer to

https://drstaceynaito.wordpress.com/2013/06/10/japanese-good-luck-darumas/

for original post). I described the power of putting a wish or intention into one of these figurines as a way of focusing on that wish and also as a way of asking Bodhidharma for guidance in making that wish come true. I also revealed that I had a Daruma for IFBB Pro Status which had been sitting on my desk since 2010 with only his right pupil painted in. As the hot weather approached I stopped sitting at my desk since it is in the one room in the house which has no central air conditioning. In an effort to keep my mind focused on my goal, I took a photo of the Daruma and used it as the wallpaper image on my phone.

I would see the image of the Daruma on my phone every single day and be reminded of why I wanted to achieve this goal. It made me push through very challenging times including job loss, the dissolution of a relationship, financial woes, and physical injuries. I was determined to give Daruma his left pupil. When I arrived in New Jersey for the NPC Team Universe contest, I found myself actually staring at the image of the one eyed Daruma. This was meditative, calming, but possessed of complete focus on my goal of winning an IFBB Pro Card.

About three hours after I earned my Pro Card the thought occurred to me that I would be able to paint in the left pupil I had waited years to do, and this became a high priority item as soon as I returned home. After setting my bags down, I sat down with my Daruma and calmly filled in the left pupil and thanked the universe and Bodhidharma for making a highly coveted dream come true.

My IFBB Pro Card Daruma...with two eyes now!

My IFBB Pro Card Daruma…with two eyes now!

Discussion Of Booty Blast Video Superset #2

There are a number of guidelines for this superset combination which will maximize gluteal muscle recruitment, so I am listing them here.

Butt Blaster: When you move the footplate back during extension of your leg, push with your HEEL instead of your toes.

Prone Leg Curl: The key to making this move effective is to use a weight that challenges you but does not force you to lift your body off the bench or arch your back. The only body parts which should be moving during this exercise are your legs as you bend your knees to bring the cushion towards your glutes. As you do this, squeeze your glutes to emphasize the movement.

Walking Dumbbell Lunge: This move is excellent for developing balance while also blasting the glutes. When you step forward, you should feel not only a stretch in the back of the leg moving forward, but also a squeeze in the glute of the other leg.

Discussion of Back Blast Video

Yesterday I posted a video of a supersetted weightlifting routine for the back which hits all the major muscles of the back. Here are some tips on performing the exercises which will be especially helpful if you are new to weightlifting. If you are truly brand new to weightlifting, only do three supersets of each group, and keep the weight lifted light enough so that you can concentrate on your form. Move from one exercise directly to the next without resting, and pause for 30 to 60 seconds between supersets.

Wide Grip Pulldowns: Grab bar near the ends and make sure to pull it down to your chest while slightly squeezing your shoulder blades together. Keep your back straight and only lean back just enough so that your face clears the bar as it comes down. When the bar comes back up, get a full stretch before performing the next rep. Exhale as the bar comes down, then inhale as it comes up.

Bent Over Cable Parallel Grip Rows: Keep your back straight during this movement and maintain a bend in the knees. The only movement should occur in your arms as you pull the grip bar towards your belly while squeezing your shoulder blades together. Exhale as you pull bar towards you and inhale as it moves away from you.

Seated Close Grip, Reverse Grip Pulldowns: This exercise is very similar to wide grip pulldowns, but you will grab bar so that your palms face you and your hands are close together.

One-Arm-Dumbbell-RowsOne Arm Dumbbell Rows: If you feel off balance during this move, you can hold onto the back of a bench with your free hand or place your hand on a flat bench (as pictured here) for stability. Bend forward at the waist and hold a dumbbell with your arm extended towards the floor. Bend at the elbow as you exhale and bring the weight up to your torso.

Hyperextensions: Beginners should perform this move without any weight. When you extend your back into the movement, make sure not to come up too high.

Good Mornings: This is a great old-school move but also the trickiest for beginners. Start by standing with the barbell on your shoulders and feet close together. Bend at the waist but keep your back straight as you move, stopping when your upper body is parallel with the floor. Maintain back alignment as you return to standing position.

DIY Sugar Scrub

turbinado_sugarThose of us who compete must undergo intense exfoliation for several days before competition spray tan is applied. This is easily done at home with a sugar scrub which can be purchased at many drugstores. However, sugar scrubs do not travel well and have a tendency to leak everywhere, leaving an oily, grainy mess in checked bags. My solution has always been to purchase a sugar scrub at my destination.

I recently traveled to New Jersey and assumed that I could easily purchase a sugar scrub at Trader Joe’s. Much to my chagrin, there was no sugar scrub product to be found at the Trader Joe’s in Paramus, so I improvised. Since I wanted to avoid leaving an oily film on my skin, I avoided using almond or olive oil and instead purchased a liquid body wash and a bag of turbinado sugar. When I returned to my hotel room, I employed a system in which I would pour a dollop of body wash into the palm of my hand and then scooped up some of the sugar. If you prefer, you could mix the sugar and the body wash together in equal amounts right before you step into the shower, but I went the lazy route. What surprised me was how well this makeshift scrub worked at exfoliating my skin without irritating it or leaving a greasy film on my skin.

So if you find yourself in need of a sugar scrub and cannot get a hold of a pre-made version (by the way, Liquid Sun Rayz has a fantastic sugar scrub), you can purchase sugar and body wash and make one yourself. Just make sure to get a large grain sugar like turbinado for more exfoliative power. moisturizing shower gels

Not Everyone Is Meant To Have Children

BabiesIt has always bothered me when people have pressured me to start a family. I have received this pressure from my family and feel that this is appropriate, but I have also been pressured by friends, patients, acquaintances and complete strangers. What is with the intense societal pressure to create progeny? I have never understood it and will never allow ANYONE to pressure me into popping out a kid. It is NOT my duty as a woman. Besides, I joke that the dairy section is getting stale, when in reality, it isn’t a joke. The medical risks associated with pregnancy in women over the age of 35 are considerable and not something I want to sign up for.

On another note, I have noticed that the older I get, the less interested I am in being around babies and children. I tolerate them and simply do not imagine my life colored by the incessant responsibilities and time requirements of child-rearing. Let me be the aunt or honorary aunt and observe from a considerable distance and for brief snippets of time. It’s not that I don’t like children. I think they are cute enough, but I don’t experience the ache that many childless women describe when seeing an adorable child.

Perhaps someone will sweep me off my feet and change my mind about raising children, but it is highly unlikely. I love my life and my freedom and do not feel that I am incomplete because I don’t have children. If I want to feel more rooted to my homebase, I will get a dog.

Woof.

The Team Universe Spell Has Finally Been Broken

Team UEvery year the NPC Team Universe awards IFBB Pro Cards to a large group of deserving athletes, so it is an extremely enticing National level bodybuilding contest for competitors who qualify at that level. I was certainly enticed and ended up competing at Team U four years in a row, with this year’s showing culminating in attaining the IFBB Pro Status I had coveted for many years. But I will admit that I almost did not enter the contest this year as a result of a lackluster performance in the three previous years. I used to refer to the “Team U Curse” when discussing Team Universe as a result of some very odd and disconcerting coincidences. Thank goodness the spell was broken this year!

When I competed at Team U in 2010 I was not “on the map” with respect to competing at the national level and as a result I was hardly given a glance by the judges. I competed against one of my dear friends who ended up winning her Pro card that year. Then in 2011 I once again found myself competing against a dear friend and watched as she won her Pro card while I had a decent but less than stellar performance. Not easily deterred, I competed at Team U in 2012 and found myself once again competing against a dear friend who got her Pro card. I was thrilled for every one of my friends, but it was a bit distressing to feel like the bridesmaid but never the bride for three consecutive years. Added to this was my intense dislike of driving around south New Jersey, the threat of rain looming over my freshly applied spray tan, and numerous other stressors and mishaps. It is no surprise that I began to think that it wasn’t a good idea for me to ever compete again at Team U.

Then this year I just decided that I had to get up onstage in New Jersey despite the pattern which had defined the last three years. Thank goodness I did! In the weeks leading up to this year’s competition, I FELT different. I was no longer concerned about who was going to beat me in New Jersey. I focused on my training, kept my nose to the grindstone and trained harder than I ever have. When I flew to Newark, there were no flight delays or mishaps, and I didn’t get lost when I drove to the hotel. There were a couple of glitches during my trip, but they were minor, and I didn’t get rattled. When I was deciding on what suit to wear, the one I chose just GLOWED and I knew it was the winning suit. My tan, my conditioning, my makeup and my hair were just right, and it was truly as if the planets aligned.

I ended up taking two First Place finishes when I only needed one to win my Pro card, plus I took an Overall win.

Don’t EVER give up on your goals. You never know when the Universe will grant you that precious wish.

My Yummy Shake And Bake Sweet Potato Recipe

I prefer the texture of yams to sweet potatoes, but you can use either one for this clean an delicious recipe! I make a very large batch which is reflected in this recipe and which is perfect for those who do their food prep ahead of time. I don’t peel the potatoes beforehand but you can certainly do so if you wish.

DR. NAITO’S SHAKE AND BAKE SWEET POTATOES

Preheat oven to 450 degrees Fahrenheit.

INGREDIENTS:
5 pounds sweet potatoes or yams, washed and cut into one-inch sections
Potatoes in bag
1/2 cup olive oil
1/4 cup balsamic vinegar
2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
1 tablespoon pumpkin pie spice
1 tablespoon cinnamon
1 teaspoon ground cloves

GlazePlace cut sweet potato sections into a clean kitchen trash bag. Mix remaining ingredients in a bowl, then pour into bag. Twist bag closed and shake mixture so that it coats the potatoes evenly. Place coated potato segments in a large baking dish which has been sprayed with non-stick cooking spray.
Ready for the oven
Bake for 45 to 50 minutes or until slightly tender.